Update

Well, my relative is going to live. He may or not have brain damage. He is currently really struggling with memory loss, anger and some paralysis. It is so profoundly sad.

I leave tomorrow for NY and my grandmother's memorial is on Wednesday morning. I am being pressed to speak and I really don't want to. I dunno what's going to happen. I do know that big family visiting stresses me mightily under the best of circumstances and this is surely not that. Think of me on Wednesday, Lone Reader and send me and my family some good thoughts. Thanks.